Inspire the best out of your partner without performing, mothering, or folding on your needs.
A 6-month journey for the woman ready to become a Muse—not just in love, but in life.
Stop repeating the same painful relationship dynamics—and start creating the kind of relationships that actually fill you.
You're doing the work. You read the books. You go to therapy. You listen to podcasts. You want to grow. But your relationship still feels… lacking.
Does this sound like you?
This isn’t just about your partner.
This is about your relationship with the masculine.
Inside and out.
This isn’t just about your partner.
This is about your relationship with the masculine.
Inside and out.
Why can’t I relax and feel safe in love?
And secretly, you're wondering:
You're having the same fight again and again.
You keep questioning if this is the right relationship.
You're stuck in a pattern you can’t seem to fully exit.
You feel like the parent. He feels like the child.
You’re evolving. He’s... slower.
Or maybe you’re not in a relationship—but the people you're drawn to either don’t choose you back, can’t meet you, or leave you depleted. You're orienting your energy around their needs, their feelings, their readiness.
Why do I keep choosing people who don’t fully choose me?
Why does every relationship feel like a drain, instead of a source of nourishment?
Heal your relationship with the masculine—so you can experience a partnership that feels balanced, passionate, and deeply fulfilling.
We’ll be doing the energetic rewiring, emotional excavation, boundary-setting and polarity work necessary to create real shifts in your relationships and life.
You’ll be guided through a full recalibration of how you relate to structure, safety, conflict, communication, power, and intimacy—in others and in yourself.
Becoming the Muse is a soft place to land and a firm hand on your back.
A sense of safety inside your own nervous system—so you stop needing others to regulate you
Here's what you'll walk away with...
The ability to inspire the best in your partner (or anyone else)—without nagging, fixing, or losing yourself
Clarity on how to ignite passion and polarity (again, or for the first time)
A deeper attraction to—and from—mature, available men
The tools to shift out of codependent, parent-child dynamics
Confidence in navigating conflict as a portal to deeper connection, not a threat
Real understanding of your attachment programming and how to rewire it
Knowing how to create relationships that feel like a resource, not a project
What's included?
Opening + closing ceremony. Bringing in the sacred so we can shift lineage-level patterns.
Bonuses and extras, including The Nectar Vault, Q&A hours, and bonus teachings
Live group thread for community with various levels of personal coaching from Caite
6-month curriculum of two live calls a month: profound practices and embodiment sessions
Taught in ways you've never learned this before:
The Inner Masculine: QUEEN TRAINING
Build the part of you that creates structure, direction, stillness, and safety. Anchor into practices that regulate your nervous system and build trust in yourself. Foundational practices for sovereign womanhood, this is this missing ingredient for your princess to queen uplevel.
Attachment Rewiring: SHOW UP AS YOUR ADULT
Identify your attachment patterns, decode your anxiety, and learn how to meet your own needs before outsourcing them to a partner. Stop repeating unconscious childhood strategies so you can show up as the empowered adult in your life. Watch everyone in your life start to trust you more, which means more openness and deeper connections.
Masculine Reconciliation: CLEAR + HEAL THE PAST
Clear the energetic imprint of past partners, fathers, and cultural programming through guided rituals and somatic release. Clean up distortions around men. See the benefits ripple into every relationship in your life from romantic to friendship to clients and colleagues.
Rupture & Repair: CONFLICT AS A PORTAL TO TRUST
Learn how to handle conflict without spiraling or avoiding. Normalize rupture as part of real intimacy, and repair as a sacred skill. Confidence here comes from competence. Compassionate conflict skills will translate to effortlessly higher standards and people who can meet them.
Communication That Lands: MUSE MAGIC
Speak your truth without pushing people away. Discover the energetic language of polarity and presence. Learn how to inspire the best out of the masculine in everyone. Everyday conversations become benevolent spells that invite more love and consciousness into your relationships.
Intimacy & Polarity: KEEP IT HOT
Understand the paradox: how safety and emotional intimacy create the foundation for sustainable passion but a little danger is needed to light the match. Learn practices for how to reignite spark with intention. Become irresistible, whenever you want to be.
Opening and closing ceremonies bookmark this live, real-time, no-bullshit space where you’ll be held accountable for showing up for yourself, invited to move past your fear, and given the tools and support to create the relationships you actually want.
This isn’t a course. This is a container.
An anchor point in your busy life that is sacred time just for you.
My eyes and intuition on your relationship and life for the entire 6 months with the energetic tracking and attunement that comes with it.
A place to bring the parts of your relationship or dating life that you don’t share with friends or family but wish you had somewhere to get support:
The intimate details, the things you’re not proud of, the desires you don’t say out loud, and the truth you sometimes have a hard time even admitting to yourself.
Because when we have the courage to own what we really want, we open the field of possibility for radical transformations.
"When actively practicing with you, I feel peace, confidence, devotion to myself, and grounded. I'd love to continue that and continue to be reminded of the beauty of my own growth with the exciting trajectory of what's to come and what more is to be had."
-Former Nectar Member
Hi, I’m Caite, and I am living proof that it’s possible to inspire the absolute best out of your man without kissing ass, abandoning yourself, performing, or turning into his mother.
After 12 years working intimately with women, I’ve learned that the most important thing about creating relationships that fill you rather than drain you isn’t JUST finding the right partner, or having better boundaries.
It’s becoming the right partner, too.
Because if Mr. Right arrives and you haven’t looked at how your childhood strategies are still running the show, you’re in trouble (been there).
About Caite
Caite is a seasoned healer, somatic coach, and intimacy expert, leading women through the inner work required to have more joy and deeper love.
Because how you show up is the only thing you actually have control over, and it profoundly affects how he shows up. You have WAY more power than you think.
And real talk, because the ways you try to stay safe or get love are actually creating disconnection, not deeper intimacy, and you can feel it.
Because I am here for the highly sensitive, “too much” women having epic, deeply fulfilling and inspired relationships without losing parts of themselves in the process.
Ready?
That’s why I’ve created Becoming the Muse.
In my 20s and early 30s, I kept repeating the same painful patterns rooted in maladaptive childhood strategies. Different men, same wound. I chased love to feel worthy—either by choosing men who needed me (so they wouldn't leave), or by pursuing men with strong boundaries who wouldn’t let me mold them into something safe. The former left me uninspired; the latter left before it got serious. I did this not just in romance, but with friends and clients, too.
Even when I met someone aligned, anxiety kicked in. I'd critique or control, trying to feel safe by reshaping them. Over time, my unconscious “you’re not enough” eroded their confidence and desire, leaving me with the shell of who they once were—and proof of my belief that I couldn’t trust them. Far from inspiring their King, I was collapsing them. When chemistry died, I blamed myself and spiraled into regret, comparison, and doubt.
My relationship journey
I started working with the anxiety underneath them. I learned to parent my inner child and teen in moments of conflict, to communicate without blame, and to regulate my own nervous system. I stopped outsourcing my safety and worth, connected to something greater than myself, and began attuning to my own needs, emotions, and boundaries.
But everything shifted when I realized these behaviors—criticism, control, avoidance, self-abandonment—were not flaws, but strategies I developed to survive.
Centering myself in my relationships—rather than constantly tracking if they were choosing me—changed everything. And the men who began showing up? Committed, self-led, affectionate, inspired, devoted. Grown men, not boys looking for distractions or mothers.
Let’s upgrade your relationship software. Let’s rewrite your relationship to the masculine. Let’s create relationships that fill you up.
You aren’t broken. Your programming is.
Join now–spots are limited to 20 women.
"What was most valuable for me in this experience was getting to know myself on a deeper level and having someone to hold me accountable while also showing me that I am not broken. Sometimes our biggest fears are that we are unfixable or that the problem will remain forever, but through this experience and your ability to so beautifully hold space for me I finally realize that I am not broken and that I am highly sensitive, but it can be my superpower."
-Alexa L
"In myself, I feel stronger mentally. I don’t feel so afraid of the future or being alone. I almost feel excited for it, and that is definitely a major change for me. I noticed myself taking more time before answering messages or really feeling like I need to ground myself before jumping into an argument. I feel also like I am able to realize my worth is much bigger than I ever gave myself credit for."
-L.L.
Your Investment
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$1800
Join in the first 72 hours and receive access to over 40 embodied wisdom teachings from the Nectar Vault (600$ value)
VIP Upgrade
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1 private coaching session per month with Caite. Save over 500$ on coaching.
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Access to the Nectar Vault with over 40 embodied wisdom teachings (600$+ value).
Personalized astrology tidbits— I’ll have your chart in my system for referencing.
Spots are limited to 20 women.
BONUSES!
Opening + closing ceremony
6-month curriculum with 12 live calls
Private group thread where I offer coaching and individual replies to questions, my eyes and intuition on your journey for the whole 6 months
Opening + closing ceremony
6-month curriculum with 12 live calls
Private group thread where I offer coaching and individual replies to questions, my eyes and intuition on your journey for the whole 6 months
The Muse
BONUS!
This program requires that you commit to missing no more than 4 calls and sharing at least once per week in the group thread. That is the investment required for me to invest in coaching you. I want the women who are going to show up for themselves and each other.
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