There’s a vicious cycle that happens in partnerships:

Your man gets wobbly for some reason— maybe it’s an income dip, a work conflict, or he’s had an injury and packed on some pounds,

You feel turned off by his insecurity,

He goes further into a shame spiral because now you don’t desire him,

His neediness and little boy energy has you even more sexually repulsed,

and down the two of you go into relational hell.

You could wait *years* for him to snap out of it,

withholding your love until he gets it together again in spite of your disdain.

Or you could break the pattern this weekend 🪄.

You have the power to take a man who has been feeling inadequate and invisible for 10 years and give him hope again because he just received a 🍆 worship session that is pulling him back from the brink.

You think I’m joking… but this has saved marriages.

That is what it means to be a tantric muse in your partnership:

the willingness to use your feminine magic and erotic power for the sake of love,

not just your personal preferences.

Not because he’s earned it,

but because it may be the thing that inspires your cowboy to get back in the saddle 🤠

and that serves BOTH of you.

Just like all the times you were feeling utterly unsexy,

and your man treated you like a goddamn snack he couldn’t WAIT to devour.

(and look, if you don’t have that kind of man… let’s get you in Becoming the Muse in Jan).

But you can’t just do the eye roll “get it over with” version and hope it works.

No, tantric muse magic is an art.

🔥🔥 Sign up here 🔥🔥

Resuscitation for the collapsed man,

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