You want to want your partner.
I see you trying to show up for your love life– initiating sometimes, saying yes when you’re not fully there, trying to figure out your hormones so you feel more desire.

But when you’re showing up from guilt, obligation, or pressure, it sucks for both of you.

I hate to break it to you babe, but even if he seems happy he’s getting something, he can feel when you’re not into it. 
It just makes intimacy feel heavier… and your desire retreats even further.

I don’t believe in “shoulding” yourself into sexual intimacy, ever.

Here’s the reframe most women have never been given:

Stop trying to want him.
Start getting turned on by your own sexual power.

I want you to get off on your own erotic life force again.

And here’s the paradox:
When you stop doing it for him, and start doing it for you, you’ll naturally start wanting him more.

If you’re ready to feel inspired by yourself again,
join TantricMuse BJ edition or Becoming The Muse. 

With love,

Caite 💋